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The course & communityROGD Repair
There’s a third way between blind affirmation and open warfare, and it can be learned.
A self-paced course and community for parents of trans-identified teens and young adults. It’s built on psychology, family systems, and communication strategy, not culture-war arguments, because arguments don’t work on your kid.
120+Video lessons in psychology and communication. Watch, or listen on the go.
HomeworkEssays and reflection questions, so you apply each idea to your own child.
RepairBotAn AI trained on the whole curriculum. Any hour, in 40+ languages.
CommunityParents working through this together, lesson by lesson.
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What I offer
For parents · start hereROGD RepairThe course and community. Where most parents begin, and the foundation everything else builds on.For parents · limitedOne-on-one coachingStrategy for your specific family, built with me over time. Runs alongside the course.For therapistsClinical consultationAnother perspective on a difficult case. One meeting at a time, booked directly.
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Sep 14, 2026Is this your estranged child in PA?Help me find this momSep 9, 2026Parents Heal TogetherPassing along an invitation, againAug 23, 2026"Parents Heal Together" - A journey of inner work for ROGD ParentsPassing along an invitationon the podcastAll episodes →
Ep. 233 · 1h 17mWhy You Probably Won't Lose Your Therapy License for Speaking Your ConscienceWith Chris LeggEp. 232 · 1h 09mAdults Should Do Hard Things So Children Don’t Have ToWith Katy FaustEp. 231 · 1h 21mDetransition Lawsuits: Legal Accountability for Medical HarmWith Lynn Chadwick